How I Stopped Overdoing It for Others

Last winter, I was literally shoveling my neighbor’s driveway in a blizzard, hoping they’d finally notice me. Spoiler: they didn’t. I realized I was doing way too much for people who barely noticed. Here’s what’s actually helped me pull back: • Only do favors if it feels fair. If I’m always giving and never getting, I pause. • Boundaries are my new best friend—no more double texting or dropping everything for someone else. • I make plans for myself first. If I’m busy, I say so. My time matters too. • I found my own thing—new hobbies, hanging with friends, just doing what lights me up. Turns out, being my own person feels way better than being someone’s backup plan. Ever catch yourself doing too much for someone? What helped you step back? #datingadvice #selfworth #boundaries #Health #MentalHealth