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My 3-year-old melted down in the grocery store

Yesterday, my 3-year-old melted down in the grocery store—right in front of the bananas. 🙈 I felt every eye on me and honestly, I wanted to disappear. But I’ve picked up a few tricks that (sometimes!) save my sanity: 🔹 Get down to their level: When I crouch and look my kid in the eye, he calms down faster. Maybe he just wants to know I’m listening! 🔹 Name the feeling: I say, “You’re mad because you can’t have cookies.” It’s wild how much this helps him feel understood. 🔹 Offer choices: Instead of “No,” I try, “Do you want apples or grapes?” It gives him some control and usually stops the screaming. 🔹 Deep breaths together: We pretend to blow up balloons. It’s silly, but it slows us both down. 😅 🔹 Ignore the stares: Hardest part! But I remind myself, everyone’s been there. (Confession: I used to judge too—karma, right?) 🔹 Celebrate the small wins: If we make it out tantrum-free, I treat us both to a little dance party in the car. What’s your go-to trick for public meltdowns? Share your survival stories! #ParentingRealTalk #TantrumSurvival #MomLife #Education

2025-05-09
R ARA
it's not funny. my daughter did it to me in Kmart. she looked like a fish out of water. I spanked her butt and put her in the buggy.a woman stood over me like she was somebody. I told her to call 911 cause she's going to need them to get me off her. all my girls needed physical discipline. my son, all I had to do was point my finger at him. he would cry a river.
05-09
Lagrange, GA
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R J Philpott
Once my daughter threw a tantrum in WM and I just stood there, ignoring her wails. One shopper gave me the stink eye & said, "Well I never!"I replied, I guess you never raised your children right. They have to learn 'no.' She stomped off. Once my daughter calmed down to a whimper, asked her if she ready to finish our shopping. She tearfully nodded yes, and off we went.
05-09
Natick, MA
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Lori Harrison
One day when we were shopping my two had a fit in the store. They wanted ice cream and I told them No. so they threw their self down on the ground and started having a fit my husband laid down with them and started kicking and screaming that he wanted ice cream they both stopped looked at him and got up laughing. That was the end of that. LMAO 😂
05-09
South Bend, IN
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Jean Williamson Briscoe
My daughter pulled that crap at our local mall… my mother was with me. I told my fit throwing child she was embarrassing me and her grandmother… walked away to my mother’s horror. My darling daughter NEVER DID IT AGAIN. 😎 gotta fight fire with fire.
05-09
Georgetown, TX
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Lisa McKenzie
My aunt's granddaughter did this so her grandpa took her outside to the truck put her in the back where the cap was so no one else could see her and he let her know that it would happen everytime she was doing it for attention she learned fast not to do it again because no one was watching her
05-09
Grand Rapids, MI
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Theaudrey Roberts
I took many childcare classes and psychology classes and was once a daycare teacher and I found that when a child is on the floor having a meltdown, get down to their same height and if that means lying in the floor also, do it and mimic their actions and 9 out of 10 the child hears you, looks at you and will either looks at you and may ask what’s wrong or get up and come over to console you. That’s when you say thanks and ask if you can go home because you’re having a bad day.
05-10
Paducah, KY
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Wayne Magner
I have one kid do that out of my three and just walked away and ignored him when somebody looked at me I just shrugged my shoulders I said I don't know whose kid that is walked away they caught up with me on the corner I said well who are you they started crying and I put him up in the cart never happened again
05-10
Vienna, MO
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Guest
Oh no, I don't play those games and I'm loved and respected by my kids. They know what I expect and we hug and love each other.
05-10
Ocala, FL
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John
That's why you parent them like you're supposed to do which involves discipline. Parents are such failures and society gets the backlash of the outcome. 🤦
05-11
Albuquerque, NM
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