why did nobody tell me these 5 truths before i turned 30?

You don’t have to have it all figured out by your mid-twenties. Most people are still searching, and that’s completely normal. Comparing your journey to others is a fast track to feeling stuck. Focus on your own path, even if it looks different from everyone else’s. Friendships change. Some people drift away, and that’s not always a bad thing. Make space for new connections and let go of guilt. Taking care of your mental health is just as important as physical health. Therapy, journaling, or even a walk can make a huge difference. It’s okay to say no. Protecting your energy isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. Boundaries are a form of self-respect. If I could go back, I’d remind myself that growth isn’t always pretty, but it’s always worth it. Give yourself grace. You’re doing better than you think. #lifelessons #selfgrowth #mentalhealth #boundaries #selfcare #RomanticRelationships