My kid killed a frog. I am desperate

My 8-year-old son recently killed a frog at the pond because he was curious if it had red blood. I was terrified. We had him evaluated at a psychiatric ward, but they only diagnosed ADHD — no deeper concerns. We set clear consequences: no screens, no trips to the pond, and no more visits to grandma’s farm for now. We talk daily about what it means to hurt and to kill, about how every living being — a frog, a horse, a cat — shares the same precious life. He says he understands. But how can I be sure he truly feels it? How do I help him develop real empathy, not just repeat the right words? I’m trying everything, but some days it feels like I’m standing still. If you’ve faced something like this, how did you help your child understand the weight of life? Please share your wisdom in the comments. #ParentingChallenges #TeachingEmpathy #ChildhoodDevelopment #RaisingGoodHumans #Parenting