Dealing with a spouse's anger issues​

My husband has severe anger issues. When he gets angry, he throws things, believing it's fine since he either bought the items or can replace them. He blames me and our kids for not listening or following his rules, claiming he wouldn't get so angry if we did what we were supposed to. His outbursts often include name-calling and constant cursing. I've suggested therapy, but he dismisses it, insisting it won't help and that it's our fault. However, breaking TVs, glass, and mirrors isn't a healthy way to handle anger. Over the years, his behavior has worsened, and despite my efforts, things haven't improved. I feel helpless and worried about our family's well-being. #AngerManagement #FamilyConflict #TherapyDoubts #SpouseBehavior #HelplessFeelings