Should I Invite My Neighbor to the Wedding?

I'm getting married next month, and my neighbor and I exchange friendly chats but aren't close. Today, he hinted at expecting an invite! I’m a bit taken aback but unsure if his attendance would upset the balance with our guests. Part of me feels guilty for potentially excluding him, but I also want to keep the event intimate. Would you add him to the list or keep it selective? How do you handle guest list dilemmas? #WeddingWoes #GuestListDilemma #WhatWouldYouDo

2025-04-17

Alice Vemeyer

maybe he's lonely and just looking to socialize more. if you have room, invite him. it just may impact his life positively.

04-17

Pompano Beach, FL

Bobbie Mulloy

Do what you think is best for YOUR wedding. Just because your neighbor wants an invitation does not mean he should automatically receive one. You do you Boo. Enjoy your day

04-17

Marana, AZ

Invite him. He’s your neighbor and it’s wise to stay on good terms with someone who lives so close by and who you probably see most every day

04-17

Lemon Grove, CA

Dpresto

I would keep it selective. I remember when I was engaged and in a new job, my coworkers were expecting to be invited. I worked with them, but hardly knew them...so I stood firm not inviting any of them. I made some great friends with them afterwards, but wasn't going to feel obligated on our special day.

04-17

Plum, PA

Sally Martinez

If you aren't close personal friends who go out to dinner or cards, NO. If he hints again, just say that the budget is tight. You are not required to invite co-workers, neighbors, or anyone else you don't want to invite. Weddings are expensive.

04-18

Denver, CO