is she confused or just not into me? her words broke me

Met her end of Feb. Thought we were vibing—coffee dates, movie nights, sleepovers, no hookups. It felt soft, real. Then we slipped into that blurry “more than friends, less than dating” mess. She kept seeing other guys, but we acted like we were something. I told her I really liked her. Not for the looks, but her whole being. And she just… cried. Said she’s overwhelmed, doesn’t feel the same spark she felt with toxic dudes before. Said I’m too “healthy” and that scares her. But also, she doesn’t wanna lose me?? So now I’m stuck with zero closure and a cracked heart over a not-quite relationship. What even is this? #situationships #relationshipadvice