owering the bar might actually save your marriage

Sometimes the gap between what we hope our partner will do and what they actually do creates this slow, quiet resentment. Like… “why didn’t they just know I needed help?” or “why didn’t they do it my way?” But here’s the thing: letting go of those invisible expectations can feel like taking a breath. Instead of wishing they read your mind, just say what you need. And if they don’t do it perfectly? Let it go. You’re not perfect either. Less pressure = more peace. Sometimes choosing your marriage means releasing the version of your partner that only exists in your head. #marriedlife #relationshiptips #expectationcheck