does he like you or just love the low-effort perks?

girl, don’t let him treat your time and energy like a vending machine. ① no 24hr notice = low priority ② 3 coffee dates, still no dinner? he’s testing limits ③ night invites only = short-term energy ④ fast food first date? shows his ceiling ⑤ daily texts ≠ real effort ⑥ bday “wyd” texts only? nope ⑦ say what you want, don’t hint ⑧ hot/cold vibes = emotional control ⑨ MIA when you're sick = cut him ⑩ act chill, observe, don’t over-reveal protect your standards like they’re Chanel 😤 #datingtips #selfrespect #dontsettle