wait, my stepmom called me the 'other woman' in my dad's life?!

So, my dad's been in and out of the hospital for high blood pressure, and after some tests, the doctor said it’s a mix of his unhealthy lifestyle and stress. Then, last night, my stepmom pulled me into a “family meeting” (aka just her criticizing me). Apparently, my dad’s high blood pressure is my fault because I don’t work hard enough or care about my future... and I’m “too clingy.” Wait, what? She even said I act like a “side chick” when I’m around my dad! Are you kidding me?! He’s my DAD! I’m just trying to be there for him. Is this really normal? #familydrama #stepmom #clingy