In the writings of Thomas, the Lord told him those that that whosoever discovers the interpretation of these sayings will not taste death. Those who seek who seek should not stop seeking until they have found. And when they find the interpretations of his saying will be disturbed and when they are disturbed, they will marvel and rule overall. He cautions Thomas if there are those who come saying the Father’s kingdom is in the sky then the birds of the sky will precede you. If they say it is in the sea, then the fish will precede you. The kingdom is not by observation, but the kingdom is within you.
Romans 14:17-18 17 For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost. 18 For he that in these things serveth Christ is acceptable to God, and approved of men.
If you heard that the kingdom comes through observation you have not received understanding. If you believe it is something you come into after death than you have not understood the teachings of the Lord.
Luke 17:20-21 The kingdom of God cometh not with observation: 21 Neither shall they say, Lo here! or, lo there! for, behold, the kingdom of God is within you.
If you understand this concerning the Kingdom that it dwells within you, then you are on your way in understanding the words of Christ’s teachings.
If you are given understanding to Eternal Life, then you have come to know both the Father and the Son. If you have not understood Eternal Life how then will you know that you have escaped the second death?
John 17:1-3 These words spoke Jesus, and lifted up his eyes to heaven, and said, Father, the hour is come; glorify your Son, that your Son also may glorify you: 2 As you have given him power over all flesh, that he should give eternal life to as many as you have given him. 3 And this is life eternal, that they might know you the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you hast sent.
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