I thought showing love meant staying close, but lately, it feels like the more I try, the more my son shuts me out. He moved to Seattle, keeps everything private, and suddenly I stumble on travel pics with a guy he never mentioned. My curiosity? Off the charts. I asked his brother, who spilled the beans but begged me to keep quiet. When I tried to reassure my sonโjust a gentle, loving reminder that we careโhe hung up on me! Now heโs cold, and Iโm left feeling angry, confused, and totally helpless. Why does caring feel like crossing a line? Have you ever been accused of snooping just for wanting to be close? How do you respect privacy without losing connection? Please, tell me Iโm not alone in this mess! ๐ฉ๐คฆโโ๏ธ #FamilyTrust #ParentingStruggles #PrivacyMatters #RomanticRelationships